You don’t need permission [Wise Wednesdays (the Summer Shorts ☀️)]

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You don’t need permission to do what you’re here to do.


YOU are responsible for your choices and their consequences. That’s your privilege as an adult human being. 


Stop waiting for permission, validation or encouragement to do what you’re here to do (or to stop doing what isn’t yours to do anymore).


Artists don’t wait for permission. Why should you?



 

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